While we try to teach our children all about life,
Our children teach us what life is all about.
~Angela Schwindt
This is not a fairytale. I learned that quite a few months ago. Naively, we went into this thinking "Oh! We want to have a baby now" and expected that it would happen because we wanted it to. And, for some that does work. Not for me - or many others like me. It's hard. It's emotional. It sometimes gets the best of you. So, after over a year of trying to conceive and a PCOS diagnosis, I find myself here - trying to believe.
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Friday, October 8, 2010
It's so unfair
It really gets on my nerves to hear people complain or not be appreciative of their kids. Don't get me wrong, I understand some complaining but if that's all you do - don't talk to me. I am a person who would go through a lot to be sleep deprived and have no 'me' time. I've had enough 'me time' to last a lifetime. It's lonely. No, I don't want you tell me "You're lucky you don't have kids and can do what you want." If you are jealous of me, that's really sad, because what I want to do is have a child and spend all of my time with them. But by some twist of fate, you have a bunch of kids you'd rather not have and I have ZERO. So please, if you are having a pity party about how much it sucks being a mom - don't invite me, I have my own pity party to attend.
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